I came to be free

I came to be free

Poems on grief, love, and renewal · PJ Starling

Finding a passage…

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The poems

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And when you are questioned
You always insist
Your right to choose death
To slaughter like this

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Cover of I came to be free by PJ Starling: broken silver chains on a black field.

The book

Using original metaphor and lyrical language, PJ Starling examines the deepest sorrows and the greatest triumphs of the human experience — the struggle to forgive oneself for past wrongs, the search for hope amidst the chaos of the modern world, and the desire for true intimacy.

Nine poems. 42 pages. These heartfelt verses invite readers into a space where they are seen and free to feel without judgment.

Buying direct from FriesenPress supports a Canadian author most. ISBN 978-1-03-837224-6 (paperback) · 978-1-03-837225-3 (hardcover) · 978-1-03-837226-0 (eBook)

PJ Starling — a bald, bearded man in a grey hooded sweatshirt, looking straight at the camera against a dark background.

About PJ Starling

PJ Starling lives in Vancouver, BC, with his nine-year-old son. I came to be free is his second book of poetry. His poem “Where light never goes” was featured by The Art of Autism, an organization that showcases the creative abilities of neurodivergent individuals.

For him, writing poetry is a form of therapy that has helped him through periods of change in his life. He hopes his poems will do the same for his readers.

Contact PJ Starling: readings@starlingpoetry.xyz

Author photograph by Marshal Chupa

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  • Vancouver and the Lower Mainland — in person, gladly.
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  • Elsewhere in BC or Canada — if travel is covered.

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