I came to be free
Poems on grief, love, and renewal · PJ Starling
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I say your name
Son, my dear son
My love, can you hear
The sound of my whisper
As I speak in your ear?
I say your name
In blades of grass
In songs of birds
In sunsets past
I say your name
My perfect son
In fish swimming by
In deer on the run
I say your name
With perfect love
In songs of the crows
And young mourning doves
In great flocks of starlings
In wind and in rain
In all of these beings
In all of these ways
I say your name
I call to you
When you least expect
My wind on your cheek
A bug on your neck
I say your name
With morning dew
I say your name
In shades of blue
I do this all for you
And if, my son
You heed my call
I’ll send more signs
I’ll send them all
For nothing is
A greater joy
Than to be heard
By my perfect boy
I call to you
In times of need
And in my call
I plant a seed
A seed of love
A love that’s free
A love that grows
A heart-shaped tree
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The book
Using original metaphor and lyrical language, PJ Starling examines the deepest sorrows and the greatest triumphs of the human experience — the struggle to forgive oneself for past wrongs, the search for hope amidst the chaos of the modern world, and the desire for true intimacy.
Nine poems. 42 pages. These heartfelt verses invite readers into a space where they are seen and free to feel without judgment.
Buying direct from FriesenPress supports a Canadian author most. ISBN 978-1-03-837224-6 (paperback) · 978-1-03-837225-3 (hardcover) · 978-1-03-837226-0 (eBook)
About PJ Starling
PJ Starling lives in Vancouver, BC, with his nine-year-old son. I came to be free is his second book of poetry. His poem “Where light never goes” was featured by The Art of Autism, an organization that showcases the creative abilities of neurodivergent individuals.
For him, writing poetry is a form of therapy that has helped him through periods of change in his life. He hopes his poems will do the same for his readers.
Contact PJ Starling: readings@starlingpoetry.xyz
Author photograph by Marshal Chupa
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- Vancouver and the Lower Mainland — in person, gladly.
- Anywhere at all — online, by video. Book clubs and classes welcome.
- Elsewhere in BC or Canada — if travel is covered.
There's no fee to have me. An honorarium is welcome if you have one, and entirely optional if you don't.
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